For years I have been thinking about what our roles are as wedding photographers and I've come to a lot of conclusions about what I feel is truly important. Somehow, the amazing folks over at We Are The Parsons (a tremendously inspiring husband and wife photography team) are writing about many of the same things that I've been thinking. There have been times when I feel like they're reading my mind - and then taking those thoughts even one step further. Ideas about letting go of a rigid "shot list" and instead allowing yourself to truly watch what is happening in front of you. Then capture that. The moments that you let unfold before you will inevitably be the most realistic. The way a dad looks at his daughter. The ring bearer's pouty face before portraits and then a complete 180 degree mood change as he RUNS down the aisle during the processional with a huge smile on his face. An offering of flowers at the beginning of the ceremony to honor those family members who are no longer physically present. Feeding your new mother-in-law a bite of your wedding cake after you cut it. Does this mean I'm never going to pose anyone ever again? Absolutely not. BUT, it helps to have this refreshing perspective about shooting. That you are doing it for a specific group of people each weekend. They are all unique. Don't follow the same "rules" every time. Liz and Brian are awesome. Their family is awesome. I hope we captured some images that could only have happened with this group. Cheers!
At the beginning of the day Jon's mom gave Becky a mercury dime from 1944 to put in her shoe. The dime had belonged to Jon's grandfather. Later during the reception, Jon's parents told them that September 16th was actually the same day that his grandparents were married in 1944, which they hadn't realized before! I just loved this sweet element of their day. These little things that make everyone's wedding day truly unique. AND, who would have guessed that we'd have a stretch of 80 degree weather in September?! I certainly hadn't expected it, but it turned out beautifully. Sojourn is one of those magical places with an up north - woodsy - summer camp - vibe that can still be as elegant or as rustic as you choose. It's a stunning location and a perfect place to spend one of the last warm weekends of the year. Cheers to Becky & Jon!
Venue: Sojourn Lakeside Resort, Coordinator: Joy Volant, Hair & Makeup: The Beauty Gals, Florist: Bride, DJ & Violin: Rodney Page, Caterer: BJ's Catering, Dessert: Kim's, Bride's Attire: Jim Hjelm by Hayley Paige, Groom's Attire: J. Barbaro, Photo & Video help by the awesome Sawyer Harris & Dustin Stockel - Stay tuned for Becky & Jon's video!